:34 Dr. Tonya's intro 

Founder of:

Fiercely Empowered Mama 

FEMbabes, 

Cleansing Circle 

the Host of the Fiercely Awakening podcast. 

2:20 What is a FEM?

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4:07 Ah-ha moment- drop your moment in the comments below to be entered into the giveaway. Share this video and comment 'Share the love' and you will also enter you into the giveaway!

5:10 Winners will receive a custom flower blend from our Natruopthic curated shop 

5:57 What is a flower essence? 

7:54 So much about being a FEM is knowing there’s always something we can do. This is about long-term healing. Restoring the body back to harmony by getting to the root cause.

9:47 You can come back and replay this video as many times as you’d like. Hnadout coming soon. 

12:20 Today is for the children who are strong-spirited! They have high needs. 

16:09 You are not alone, Mama! Now is the time, do not wait for them to ‘outgrow’ the communication. The longer we take to address it the harder the healing gets. 

18:55 Dr. Tonya’s personal story about how she got on this quest of natural health, found naturopathy, her son’s story and listening to her mama intuition. 

25:39 When are children as acting in extreme behaviors it is their cry for help. 

27:55 When we accept that our children act out because of deficiencies, toxicity, or an emotional unmet need, we can truly have compassion for why things are they way they are. Our job is to have the higher perspective and higher truths. 

29:54 As Mothers we all have unconscious patterns or tendencies that will take over if we allow it when those emotions are high. When buttons get pushed over and over the intelligence tends to drop and now we have two children instead of one. We HAVE to stay plugged into keeping our intelligence high. 

32:37 Nervous System dysregulation - expressed in anger. Having zero capacity for stress.

36:41 As the communication intensified and I started Naturopathic school – I was pulling out all the things as I was learning it was like “maybe this is it”, trying ALL the things to see what would work! 

39:31 Parent coaches. On the podcast Episode 23: Is Your Parenting Working Right Now?

42:17 I called this in to understand this for ALL of US! Doing all the right things but still having communications!

43:29 In my case he was angry, but this is for the kids that show loud communication that they are Not in their bodies. 

44:48 Shark teeth and cranial sacral in the mouth created A healing crisis, This lead us to a Chiropractor who specializes in nervous system regulation and works with kids. We saw HUGE shifts!

Episode 31: Conversation with Dr. Dustin McIver on the Innate Intelligence of the Human Body & Owning Your Health

50:33 The journey towards conscious parenting it is a requirement that we take 100% responsibility for. Realizing that this is happening for you and your child! It is so much bigger than right now! Once we know better, we do better.

Quote: “To parent consciously requires us to undergo personal transformation. In fact, it’s my experience that the relationship between parent and child exists for the primary purpose of the parent’s transformation and only secondarily for the raising of the child.” ~Dr. ShaFali

53:52 Brain development- if we fail to understand how a child’s brain develops then we will continue to hold them to standards that don’t exist. In other words, we set ourselves up for failure - because we expect what’s not even possible.

55:24 3 Areas of the Brain, three main areas: lower, middle, and higher.

55:32 Lower area- the alarm center 

55:57 Middle brain- the emotional brain. From birth to 7 children are living in their middle brain (boys even until 9)

57:05 Higher brain- the rational center. Starts to develop around 7 years old and doesn't fully develop until 24

58:55 Between the ages of zero and 7 - our children are egocentric. 

1:00:32 Its in these ages that most limiting beliefs take root 

1:01:05 Things to keep in mind when your child triggers you- this is about You. 

(Masterclass on keeping your own cup full - coming later this month on June 27

‘Harmonize your Metabolism, increase your energy & feel unstoppable’ )

1:03:10 Kids will seek parents to yell at them to receive a chemical release so they can calm down. This is LOUD nervous system dysregulation 

1:05:43 Reaching for the higher truth- your kid is not trying to be rude or embarrass you. The child is really pleading for help

1:08:47 The biggest offering we can do is to be neutral as fast as possible. To lose the charge.

1:09:59 There can be many layers- tapping into your intuition about what feels normal and what feels like communication that needs to be addressed. 

1:10:50 babies who are born from adrenal depleted mamas are already coming into the world with less capacity- more information from the FEMbabes course

1:13:59 Birth Trauma 

1:18:01 Clues that your kids are stuck in Fight or Flight 

1:19:35 Lack of Oxygen - mouth breathing, teeth grinding, Crooked teeth, jaw structure, and digestive issues  

1:28:06 Vivos system or Healthy Start system and myo munchie 

1:28:43 Food Sensitivity- the more toxic a child is the more sensitivity there is going to be

1:31:17 Lack of Sleep not from mouth breathing 

1:33:05 Deficinciencies, Toxins, Minerals & HTMA reports 

1:4018 Toxicity

1:41:17 Screen time and devices 

1:42:40 You’ve got to know your child and draft the health history 

1:43:21 Where do we go from here? Sharing a FEM win! 

1:47:38 Inside FEM we deepen our understanding of this conversation. This is why it's a full-year immersion and we make it easy to continue with us year after year.

Fiercely Empowered Mama

2:27 Quick tools to start with

-Saturated Fats: butter and ghee

-Protein

-Electrolytes (Real Salt & coconut water)